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Complimenting skills that decides children’s future
True Compliments
Selected for Audiobook Grant| Author | Chung, YoonKyung and Kim, Yoonjeong |
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| Publisher | SOULHOUSE |
| Publish Date | 2021/04/22 |
| Price | 14,000 Won |
| Size/Pages | W 152mm, H 215mm, Thickness 11mm, 240 pages |
| ISBN | 979-11-88915-42-2 |
| Category | Child Education |
| Keywords | #ComplimentingChildren, #Compliments, #FalseCompliments, #OppositeEffectOfCompliiments, #PowerOfCompliments, #SkillOfCompliments, #TrueCompliments |
Many parents have trouble to give compliments to their children and do not know how to give proper compliments.
Compliments are the best tool to develop confidence and independence as well as promote learning ability in children.
Change your children’s life with real compliments that tells them what they did well and why that is good.
Overview
Professor Chung, Yoonkyung is a developmental psychologist and appears on many childcare programs such as “Live Broadcast Parents”, “Mother Shock”, and “Perfect Baby” as a mentor. In EBS documentary “Opposite Effects of Compliments,” she revealed that wrong compliments can actually be harmful to children.
‘True Compliments’ talks about compliments from beginning to the end. It talks about how harmful wrong compliments can be, and how to give proper compliments that help your children.
Parents who are awkward at giving compliments, parents who found out that just complimenting your children all the time can be harmful can both learn proper complimenting skills through ‘True Compliments.’ True compliments will change your children’s future.
About the Author - Chung, YoonKyung and Kim, Yoonjeong
Chung, Yoonkyung
She earned a doctorate degree in developmental psychology at Chicago University in US. She currently works as a professor of psychology in Catholic University. She appears on EBS TV programs such as Live Broadcast Parents”, “Mother Shock”, and “Perfect Baby” as a mentor to parents who are concerned about raising their children.
Her works include ‘Mom Who Shouts at Sons, Dad Who is Flustered at Daughters’, ‘IQ EQ Helps to Raise Children’, ‘I’m Worried about Raising My Son’, ‘Words That Raise Up Children vs Hurt Children’, ‘Happy Nagging That Raises Children’, ‘Secret of Using Toys to Raise Children’.
Kim, Yoonjeong
She majored in novels at Chung-Ang University Graduate school of Art. She worked on various books at children’s book publishers. Currently, she works as an author and an editor, and is head of ‘chaek nadeuli (book outing),’ a research lab focused on children’s reading.
Features
● Includes everything about compliments including power of, opposite effects of, and skill of compliments.
● 20 years’ worth of research by developmental psychologist is included in an easy to digest manner.
● Educates us how to give compliments our children properly.
● Tells us how to give compliments based on age
● The book includes actual case studies from concerned parents as well as section about complimenting based on children’s disposition.
● There are words of compliments that can be helpful as well as harmful included.
Table of Contents
Ch. 1 Compliments Raise My Children
Dividing Success and Failure - ‘Power of Compliments’
Compliments Raise Self-Efficacy
Compliments Make Self-Directed Children
Compliments Give Motive of Accomplishment
Compliments Raise Self-Control
Compliments Improve Actual Abilities
Compliments Improve Personal Relationship
Compliments are Meaningful
Ch. 2 Wrong Compliments Are Poison
‘Opposite Effects of Compliments’
Compliments Can Be Worse Than Scolding
Compliments That Stop Challenges
Compliments That Kill Motivation
Compliments as an Addiction
Hollow Compliments Breed Distrust
Ch. 3 There Are Good Compliments
Not Comprehensive, Detailed Compliments
Not Results, Compliment the Process
Compliments Situations that Can Be Controlled
Ch. 4 Compliments That Make You Dance
Lip-Service Does Not Equal Compliments
Do Not Be Thrifty with Compliments
Don’t Intrude on Internal Motive
Don’t Compare with Others
Look For Things to Compare Around the Child
Find Things to Compliment Even in Failures
Compliments Have Expiration Dates
Ch. 5 Complimenting by Age
Complimenting Infants (0-18 Months)
Complimenting Toddlers (18-36 Months)
Complimenting Babies (3-6 Years)
Complimenting Children (School Age)
Complimenting Adolescents
Ch. 6 Compliment Like This.
Concerns of Compliments Solved
Concerns 1-15
Complimenting by Disposition ➊ Complimenting Shy Kids
Complimenting by Disposition ➊ Complimenting Unfocused Kids
Complimenting by Disposition ➊ Complimenting Obstinate Kids
Compliments That Help Children
Compliments That Harm Children





