*You can see it as a big image when you click it.
Childcare message for the 3 million dads in their 30s
Today’s Dad Born in 1985
| Author | Choi, Hyunwook |
|---|---|
| Publisher | SOULHOUSE |
| Publish Date | 2021/05/15 |
| Price | 14,000 Won |
| Size/Pages | W 152mm, H 215mm, Thickness 15.8mm, 256 pages |
| ISBN | 979-11-88915-43-9 |
| Category | Child Education |
| Keywords | #DadChildcare, #SympathyChildcare, #TodaysDad |
Today’s dads sympathize with the importance of childcare by dads.
So, dads who work until late hours feel a sense of debt about the balance between work and family. There is a big gap between what they want to be and reality.
In this society where things weigh heavily on dad’s shoulders, can we make them feel hope rather than anxiety?
What should dads do if they can’t spend as much time with their children as moms?
Find out wise childcare methods for working dads who find work and family both important.
Overview
What is the best childcare method for dads who have little physical time with their children? It is not about being a superman who never looks tired, being kind to their children and doing chores around the house. The real solution is to acknowledge that dad is not superman. Dads must accept that they have little time with their children and do childcare that makes sense within that time.
Child is happy when mom is happy, so dad’s should make wife happy. In order to do that, first, dad has to be happy. Also, to spend the short time they have with their children effectively, they must know better about childcare.
“Today’s Dad Born in 1985” understands the anxiety and pressure that todays’ dads feel, talks about the need for childcare by dads, and suggests how to fairly divide up childcare for moms and dads together.
For dads who have very little time with their children, how can they more wisely raise their children, how can they spend their own time, and how can they sympathize with their wives are suggested in the book. If you want to be a good husband to your wife and good dad to your children, but are tired because of work life balance, open up this book. You can find the answer to being happier and how that happiness can lead to better husband wife and dad child relationships.
About the Author - Choi, Hyunwook
Born in 1985, married for 10 years, and dad of two children. He graduated from the Air Force Academy and works as a fighter pilot in the air force. He tried hard to find the balance between work and family.
As he searched for the most effective childcare methods while he doesn’t have much time, he realized that ‘dad who loves mom, dad who loves himself’ is important in childcare. He is working hard to find balance in important values including work, family, development, health, money, and relationship.
In his busy life, he finds his time to meditate and write to look at himself in an objective way. As one of 620K people in the Korean army and 3 million dads in their 30s, he wrote this book to help other dads find themselves and lead a balanced life.
Features
Table of Contents
Prologue
Wise Childcare for Working Dads
Ch. 1 Dad Who Loves Mom
Work and Childcare: What’s Harder?
Happy Childcare that Begins by Caring for the Wife
Give Alone Time for Your Wife
Match Children’s Eye-Level With Your Wife
Ch. 2 You Are Doing Well
Dad! Where Are You Going?
Dad, What Did You Do For Me?
Meaning of ‘Dad’ in Korea
Contracting Society. Anxious Dads
Dad’s Depression That He Can’t Tell Anyone
Stop Comparing!
Fair Childcare Together
Ch. 3 Necessity for Self-Care
Caring for Wife Begins with Caring for Self
What I Learned from Being Mindful
Happy Childcare Begins With Having My Own Time
Butterfly Effect of Small Accomplishments
Tool of Growth, Record of Today
Be Truthful When It’s Hard
Ch. 4 Dad Childcare, This is Why We Need It
Meaning of Dad
Dad Childcare That Leads Children On the Right Path
Playing with Dad Creates Future Talents
Games that Develop Problem Solving and Self Control
Children Remember Everything
Dad’s Life is Childcare
Ch. 5 Skills to Make Childcare Easier
Read Childcare Books!
Compliment Process Rather Than Results
Always Keep Even Small Promises
Acknowledge That You Don’t Know About Your Children
Talk to Your Children About Your Feelings
How To Talk Your Mind with Your Children
Effective Method to Discipline
Games to Play with Dad
Ch. 6 Setting Up the Environment for Dad Childcare
Setting Up the Environment is Important
Effective Time Redistribution
Enjoying Pull and Push Childcare
Don’t Be Greedy
Ch. 7 Joy of Living as Dad and Husband
Happiness in Husband Wife Relationship That Support Their Dreams
Present from My Children
New Definition of Filial. I Should Live Well
Childcare that Helps in Work
True Husband Wife Relationship Starts After Becoming a Dad





